Reflections

Went to redo my perm today (wed),
had a conversation with my hairstylist (Andy).
those words he said, reflected on me...
and i agree with it ^-^

its about relationship,
he mentioned,
True and forever love
a guy can say,
"I love you from the first sight I see you..."
"I know I will last with you forever..."
"you are the most pretty one..."
during honeymoon period,
all this words, is nonesense, rubbish.
every guys know how to say this when he's going after a girl
and a girl will fall into it when there are sweet talk
aft a couple months or so,
the guy would say,
"not happy, break lo"
a guy can simply say this when he's sick of the relationship
a guy had nothing to lose at all
those couple who says,
"what I matter now is, we are happy together now"
"cherish the moment now, future path shall be plan"
this is also nonesense
if you don't even know what will be the future,
then what is the purpose of being together?
This is not True Love at all!
and I believe it wont last...

he also mentioned,
"you can hardly see on the street,
one old couple hold hands tight together"
This is meant to be True love and forever love
An analogy,
if you are out of town,
your partner would wait for your call,
worrying what your situation there,
w/o your call, your partner would not sleep well
Now you will know,
how important you are to him/her.
this kind of guy/girl is then worth for you.
As compared,
if your partner reacts,
"oh, my partner is out of town,
I can go and Chiong lo"
this type of guy, is not truly.
when you went out late,
your partner will call and ask,
"do you need me to pick you up?"
He is truly care for you.
Of course, this behaviour must prolong...
if it's only last for a couple of month,
then shall forget about it.

Nowadays,
people can't see True love anymore.
people around me,
shall reflect...
I, myself, will also reflect...
guy has nothing to lose, really.
girl shall be the one to lose.
a guy can covered a lot of thing,
you may be good to him,
outside will have even better,
a guy can be greedy, w/o letting you know about it.
a girl can be devoted,
if a guy treat her good enough,
she will not fall into any else.
certainly, if a guy treat her not good enough,
she would fall in love into another.
I believe this happen in lots of cases.
If you really love your partner truly ,
do it so!
lets believe that, there is True and Forever Love in Earth!

PS to dar, thank for everything!